9 tricks to make orgasm no longer hard to find
Step 1: Love Your BodyNine out of ten modern women feel they are overweight. When meeting naked, this kind of self-deprecating view sometimes prevents two people from enjoying their due fun. For example, people who think their breasts are too small may feel inferior when their partner touches their breasts, and subconsciously avoid his hands, or guide him to pay attention to other places. Over time, such signals can bother the partner and affect the sexual relationship.
One woman trained herself to think that despite her small breasts, men were happy to sleep with her, proving they didn't think there was anything wrong with her breasts. In this way, she no longer resisted her male partner touching her breasts.
Step 2: Learn to masturbateSince men's first ejaculation usually comes from masturbation, the proportion of women who do so is definitely not low. In fact, masturbation is a very effective way to learn, because after you understand your own body, you can guide the other party to use the most appropriate way when you have sex with your partner. There is another advantage of masturbation: it is guaranteed to reach orgasm. If you use professional auxiliary tools such as massage sticks or masturbation sets during the masturbation process, the effect will be doubled.
Tip 3: Pleasing yourself is as important as pleasing the other personSometimes, women try their best to meet the needs of the other party out of fear that the other party will not be satisfied. But sex is actually a give and take of both parties. If you blindly satisfy the other party, women will eventually become resentful of "that thing". Women should directly explain their needs to each other without feeling guilty or embarrassed, because in fact, men like women who can enjoy sex.
When a man discovers that his actions bring women pleasure, it excites him more than anything else.
Tip 4: Don't Fake an OrgasmTo please men, some women fake orgasms so realistically that men can't tell. But when they do this, they don't think about the long-term consequences: if they don't feel pleasure but fake an orgasm, it will undoubtedly make the man repeat his wrong actions next time, because he mistakenly thinks that way will make women happy.
A woman once had the experience of her partner rubbing her pussy vigorously, trying to get her to orgasm, but it hurt her. She was too embarrassed to tell him that his manner was too rough, so she faked an orgasm to make him stop. Unexpectedly, he rubbed her in this rude way every time in the future, making her more and more painful, and finally she couldn't bear it, so she had to tell him the truth. It was a shock to the man, and a great remorse to the woman, if only she had made it clear in the first place.
Often, men seem to get right into it without any foreplay, and enjoy it. In fact, this is their own misunderstanding. Touching and teasing turns a guy on because when a woman does it, she's saying how much she likes his body. Some women are shy and afraid to act, but there is absolutely no man who does not like women doing it, so just do it boldly, and you will get visible results immediately.
Petting and teasing is easy, just keep sliding your fingers all over his body, especially the inner thighs and nipples; sometimes touch his lower part as a tease. In addition, women can use hair, tongue and eyelashes to increase the provocative effect.
Step 5: Don’t be afraid of sexual fantasiesA female admits: When she makes love with her husband every time, she imagines making love with Leonardo. This vision made her extremely excited, and her husband also got pleasure from her wild action. She felt that it didn't matter, anyway, she couldn't really have an affair with Matt Damon. Sexual fantasies are healthy, experts say, because not only are they a great motivator, but what happens in a fantasy doesn't have to be real at all.
For example, if a heterosexual man fantasizes about lesbian situations, it does not mean he is gay; nor does it mean that a woman wants to have an affair if she imagines having sex with a man other than her husband. Sexual fantasies just show that the person has a rich imagination, and this can indeed stimulate sexual love.
Tip 6: Don’t be staticIf you have sex the exact same way every night, even if you climax every time, it will end up being boring. This is because there is no longer any expectation. According to a woman's personal experience: As long as she is on top, rubbing her buttocks in circles against a man's pussy, she can orgasm. So they adopt this position every time they make love, and they quickly reach orgasm and end in a hurry, and the result is not satisfying at all.
It’s that old saying, in fact: what’s tastiest when it’s slow. In other words, the slower you reach orgasm, the stronger the pleasure. Once you are in the most stimulating position, you should switch to another position as soon as you are sufficiently aroused, without waiting for orgasm. This is not only used to delay the timing of orgasm, but also to take the opportunity to discover the fun of other positions.
Step 7: Get to know each other’s bodiesWe know that everyone is different, and it's the same when it comes to sex. Women who have had sexual experience with other men before sometimes use the previous methods on their current partners, which is inappropriate. So, how do you know what way the other party likes? This depends on careful observation.
Of course, some people will automatically express his preference by moaning or shouting, but many people may belong to the type that silence is golden. At this time, you can listen to whether his breathing quickens or gasps; whether his pupils suddenly dilate; collapse; and the most obvious is the hardening of the penis. It doesn't take long to observe in this way, and it can be seamlessly matched with his preferences.
Tip 8: Make good use of auxiliary equipmentWhether it is sex goods or pornographic videos, it is a good tool to add sex fun, because they can provide many new ideas and increase stimulation. For some, sex merchandise can even resolve sexual incongruity. A woman with difficulty reaching orgasm embarrasses her partner by having to manually orgasm after her partner withdraws.
Later, she bought a vibrating collar that was covered in particles and had a hole in the middle for the penis to pass through, and placed it in the pussy, so that every time the partner penetrated, the vibrating collar would rub against her pussy, bringing A pleasure she had never experienced before.
Tip 9: Spy on other people's sex livesAlthough snooping is usually bad, but sometimes one's sex life is not satisfactory, so snooping can also bring positive power. Because seeing the happiness of others will stimulate you to find ways to change the status quo.